Plain Jane, is a reality TV program on TLC. Being a hardcore realistic person, I seem to be sticking with reality base programs only on TV, of course, with few exception. This programs grooms girls above twenty to under thirty, who have been in relationship for some time but they could never muster it to those with whom they were in relation. they could never take it to another level even though some of them were best friends since college.
Its not that these girls are not smart, educated and beautiful but they just lack that confidence to admit it to the man of their life. May be, its presumed that this is the work of a man. Louise Roe, the program host ask only 48 hours with these girls and after a first meed, she just picks up her phone to dial the guy to fix a blind date in just 48 hours.
She then starts working with girls starting with their worst fear and conquering it by any means possible. Some did skydiving, some did pulled the bill of a 1000 dollar from the 100 snail filled in a vase and some picking up the bill from the shark aquarium and some boxing their fear out. But more than that the girls has to gain the confidence to face the guy, who was in her life for long time, she liked him loves him yet have nt confidence to admit it in front of him. Fearing the rejection and some never wanted to lost the best friends if she shares her inner feeling with him. you know how girls are when it comes to cockroaches and the slippery snails
The background of the story is of course, based in America and thats why its makes it so interesting to watch it as its regarded the very advanced country to put their feelings it words.
Once they face the fear, then they have to go through the dress up sense and then some makes up tips to get the attention of the guy.
It was shocking to find out at the end of the show that almost every guys felt the same way as the girls but was afraid of rejection, so they never propose the girl of her life.
A study reveals that ninety percent men are afraid of rejection, so they never propose. ninety percent huh ! It does not surprise me then, there is this notion that tells, women are smarter; when it comes to emotional intelligence and they have this knack of reading feelings about all the emotions. She may be slow to get so many other things, that is under the sun; but she is the mother of all emotions, because she is the one who invented most of it.
A recent survey done and complete follow up in every six month of their marriage from the beginning for about fours years by the psychiatrist of University of California reveals that, if she has a doubt about her marriage, which may not work, then she should listen to her instinct; because the divorce is sure on the way; compared to men who has the same doubt. It also mean that she can hold it, I mean a home or a family, if she wants to and things will fall apart, if she is distracted to keep it together.
So next time when you know you like the guy and your instinct tells you that he too likes you then you know what to do. Because behind that cool and macho man there lies the very insecure man who lack the self confidence especially when smart, beautiful and intelligent girl like you is around him to make him feel more nervous. So, take the matter in your hand. The chances of being rejection is just ten percent, and thats what makes it so interesting.
Here at this moment, I remember this line from a movie, my big fat greek wedding, “men are head and women are neck, without neck head can not nod”.
