Physical relationship is inevitable in any adult relationship, if they are attracted to the opposite sex. If one is having an affair, sex is a pure expression of love. In fact, sex, is an honest expression of one's feeling; that adult express their feelings with their partner. When they fall in love, to show how much they love each other. But to some it's just an act, adult do; to time pass, with their partner and to them it has nothing and nothing to do anything this is called love.
But to a young policeman, Shekhar, when he engaged with a woman physically for the first time, it was love and he wanted to marry Charulata, who was married and have two children. Besides, she was 10 years older than he too. But this being his first affair with intimate involvement, it was not just sex but the pure expression of his feelings for Charu. She had accepted it with, by submitting him, whenever he needed her [or she needed him] for the physical relationship. After some time like that, he started asking her to marry him. By saying so, he wanted her to leave her husband first, so that she can marry him.
But, to Charulata, she being a married woman, for her, sex is just an act, to fill avoidance of its existence in her married life. When Shekhar tried to reason with her saying “I love you, not just your body, so I want to marry you”, all his feelings meant nothing to her. She was just hungry for physical needs. She used to deny bluntly for his marriage proposals.
When he realized all his request to marry with him, is falling on deaf ear, he felt denied and rejected. He felt being used for her need. Shekhar was a young police constable in armed police force. One day, he left his office with his gun, high powered gun; without any information to his office and went to Charu’s home to convince her, last time to marry with him. It was the 6:00 am in the morning and bit early for anyone to enter the house. This time he had no option but to ask it, in front of her husband and mother-in-law. When Charu again denied to marry with him, saying she is already married, he took all of them to the nearby small forest and shoot them all. Charu, her husband and mother-in-law, killing all three on the spot. It was not his intention to kill the other two but Divendu and the mother-in-law also trying to convince him, “how can you ask to marry, a married woman with you ?”
To him good sex with her meant, full acceptance by this grown woman, who was 10 years older than him. But to Charu, It was just the sex and it was not the language of love.
Normally, our society has taught us to blame men for using woman just for a pleasure ride or for taking easily available. But this incident tells us, sex does speak the language of love to them and denial of it could be very fatal, just like above incident. Oh, yes I agree fully with you; not all the case end up like this. Men being the emotionally constipated creature, just block themselves up. Yeah, sometimes they use such words to the women, you just want to use your music phone on your ear so high that you wontt hear, all those filthy words that is being targeted at all women. When they curse like that, they cover all the women on earth; not just the one who cheated them and devasted them.
And do you know what happens, when men use women for pleasure ride and sex is just power sex but not the language of love ? She ends up becoming the single mother.
Note : This incident is based on real life crime report, which happened in Indian city Kolkatta about a little more than a year ago.
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